After four years, scads of lays, and many great girlfriends (plus plenty of failures along the way), he launched this website.People are generally looking for a way to find an interesting and seductive relationship. This is the logical flaw that keeps so many of us from opening up new relationships.Envisage this scenario: Joe spots Jane nearby on the beach, sitting and applying some sunblock, and a brilliant plan crosses his mind.Pacing and leading also applies to energy and state.
So, he set to work and read every book he could find, studied every teacher he could meet, and talked to every girl he could talk to to figure out dating.Doesn't matter if you are a man or a woman, looking for a man or a woman; we're all human beings, our brains are made the same way, so the rules are pretty much exactly the same. I assume you've read the previous two articles on where to meet and how to approach? So in our hypothetical situation, Joe and approached Jane in a very non-threatening way and offset her defensive systems with a time deflection. Picture yourself (as a woman) standing at the vegetable isle of a supermarket, looking for the best-looking tomato to buy.If you don't get that sentence, you really should skim through the how to approacharticle first. A fairly normal looking guy approaches you and starts talking. In the second case, there is less pressure to engage, and you feel more relaxed.They are then primed as having had a positive interaction with you, and they are then much more likely to do further favours and react well to your presence in future.This is scientifically proven, first discovered by Ben Franklin, and works a treat in these situations.Now imagine him facing directly towards you when he talks, then imagine him facing the tomatos and looking at them as he's talking. In the first case, it is clear he is there to talk to you. Now replay the same situation if you were sitting down, perhaps at a bus stop.