"It’s heightened by the distance that we have because of online technology," says Winter, explaining that because there is so often a screen between you and the person you're communicating with, exchanges can feel less personal."A lot of our interactions and hookups aren’t that meaningful anymore, so when the relationship itself isn’t meaningful, our morals around how we interact with them are a lot more lax." GHOSTING First, ghosting—perhaps the most popular of the bunch—simply means disappearing without a trace.Used in a sentence: "That fuckboy grabbed my ass at the club last night." Definition: A small overnight bag of the essentials.This is typically used for a one-night-stand and includes things like a toothbrush, condoms, and a hairbrush. Used in a sentence: "I forgot my shack pack so I was stuck brushing my teeth with my finger." Definition: AF stands for "as fuck." But it is commonly used to describe someone who is super single.According to Winter, benching is putting someone in the “maybe” box. “Even though you’re sitting there [on a metaphorical bench], they’re constantly giving you hope. “Just when you’re ready to leave, they throw you another crumb. Breadcrumbing feels like you’re in it when you’re not. “You can’t get to something meaningful by scattering your energy amongst a lot of people.Benching, you’re kind of aware of the fact that they’re seeing others and they’re distancing themselves.” but how can we keep ourselves from doing the same? You’re never going to have the focus.” Sounds like it's time for some fall cleaning...
So they work really hard to "catch" someone and once they attain them they "release" them.
It’s usually a result of them being too afraid to tell you they don’t want to take things any further.
“One moment you are flirting back and forth after a handful of dates, the next you are checking your phone incessantly, bewildered at why this person you had a connection with has so abruptly dropped off the face of the earth.” Slow Fade Similar to ghosting, this is a more drawn-out version, “where someone you are chatting to or seeing gradually cuts you off, making less and less effort with being in touch.” Thirst Trap This term is most commonly used to describe a social media photo that's posted to intentionally create attention.
Definition: When the person you're seeing suddenly stops responding to any means of communication. Used in a sentence: "We went on three dates and then she ghosted me." Definition: Unlike ghosting, the slow fade is a more gradual way of cutting off communication with someone you're seeing.
The slow fade is when you begin to respond/interact less and less until you stop talking altogether.