The lines of communication between the two of you are open, and by being completely engaged in what your partner is expressing and staying in the moment, you’re able to truly listen to one another.
Before marriage, we are carried along by the emotions of the “in love” obsession. Acknowledge the reality that this is very common–that these thoughts and feelings come back to you.
But for some couples, a little distance will probably be a good thing.
: Well maybe God spoke to her, or maybe she just had pizza for dinner last night.
The differences between people are colossal in those years.
After 30, 35, 40, the differences are not as important or prevalent.