When our phone rings and the caller id says it’s him, our heart skips a little.If that gradually stops, we begin to doubt his feelings.Remember that men love a chase, so let him be the hunter.There are circumstances when you should be calling. Once you’re in an established relationship, there’s a certain sense of ease that sets in.Thoughts of him taking us for granted may also sneak into our heads.Talking to a man about his calling habits rarely does any good.Instead of talking to him about his dwindling phone calls and non-existent emails, you need to take action.The way you handle calls, texts and emails can actually reignite his drive to call you.
He may also feel that you are being petty or too sensitive.
Most women don’t fully realize that if they repeatedly call a man they are sending him a very loud and clear message that says, “I’m desperate!
” That’s certainly not how you want him to perceive you, is it?
When you call a man first after each and every date, he’ll begin to wonder if you’re too emotionally available. He may not call immediately but if he’s interested, he will.
Always initiating contact suggests that you are becoming too dependent on him and that you need reassurance that he’s right where you want him – interested. He’ll wonder why you aren’t chasing him down like other women have.